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Help for Spouses Archives - Ever Accountable
11 Sep
3 Reasons Why Wives and Partners Love Ever Accountable Jourdan, a young wife of a former porn addict, strongly encourages accountability apps for porn recovery on her popular TikTok channel @ThatsNotLove. She praises Ever…
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16 Feb
How Quitting Porn Helped My Marriage (before it even started) Marriage is hard. Can I get an amen? I’m Ken Anderson, a fellow porn fighter. I’d like to share with you why quitting porn helped…
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29 Dec
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30 Oct
How to Help Your Partner with Recurring Porn Slip-Ups: A Guide for Accountability Partners “Please help! I’ve had a major slip-up, and I’ve been watching porn again!” Your friend Jamie (fictional name) has just reached out. Now what do…
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14 Sep
Trust and accountability: steps to becoming who you want to be A 2022 Pew Research study notes: “Today, two-in-ten Americans say they trust the government in Washington to do what is right just about always (2%)…
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24 Aug
Healing from Betrayal – Melissa’s Story Betrayal is one of the deepest wounds I’ve had to heal from as the wife of a former porn and sex addict.I met my husband…
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23 Dec
Navigating Pornography As A Couple: A Conversation Guide by Brian Willoughby, PhDWhile watching pornography on a regular basis can have detrimental effects on the individuals who watch it, perhaps the greatest cost to…
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19 Dec
Understanding Betrayal Trauma Healthy romantic relationships are built on a foundation of trust. Trust is a critical component in all romantic relationships because these relationships are what experts…
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